14th
bad advice refuted
mary,
in the complex world of social relationships, your brain is your only friend. the tingle can give you important information, but ultimately one ought to use her head and not her snatch in deciding whether to act on it. you are a whole being: head, heart, and pussy. it’s a tough world out there and you are going to need the whole kit and kaboodle to get through it in one piece.
and i think the fact that julia allison is advising you to “maintain a little mystery” ought to raise some red flags.
—Julia is finally writing a response to my tummy tingles blog.
I am of the mindset you have to attempt not to analyze too much, and life will lead you in the right direction. To me, too much thinking about relationships = playing games. I get the fact people should maintain a little mystery. But if you have to maneuver and strategize, you are not honest or real with him or yourself. After you chose a road and drive down it for a while, when you finally stop for a pee break, you realize you can’t remember how or why you got there. You were too caught up in your head to read the road signs.
I hope I communicated that clearly. Think = bad. Live = good.
All set Jules.
